Can People Change Their Negative Rearing?

 

Question:     Then do you believe that people can change the effects of negative rearing?

 

Answer:       Yes, you can, but the probability of a person doing so successfully is very, very low. It is possible because we do have wills, we can change ourselves, we can mold ourselves into the image of anything that we can imagine, but these are very painful processes and they can throw a person into a continual state of adolescence. Whenever you change a part of your make up, you have to rearrange your whole personality to come up with a new dovetailed psychology. So the person who is continually improving himself tends to be in a sort of turmoil as far as his emotions are concerned, but this is what it takes for us to become better human beings. It surely is not easy, but the rewards of being a whole human being are worth it. Some parents have done such a brilliant job of raising their children that they are whole human beings right from the beginning. As a matter of fact, the Lemurian civilization was like that. However, our society is so warped and so perverted that we hardly have any notion of what spiritual maturity really is; and since we are all in the same predicament together, who of balance do we have to compare against? (04-1973)

 

 

 

 

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