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How Is Karma
Determined in a Marriage? Q: I think it was a couple of months ago you
were talking about karma. You made the comment that there were a lot of ways
of getting positive or negative physical karma as an example. What exactly
does the woman get from taking
care of a sick husband? Does she get positive physical karma? I think you
also said that a husband and wife have same karma? Could you clarify how that
would work? I don’t understand how they could have the same karma. RK: They really
don’t have the same karma, but they share their karma. Each one has their own
karma, and they share it in common. If he, for instance, and let’s put it on
economic karma, because that’s a little easier to deal with. Let’s say he is
$100,000 dollars in the hole, karmically. She is $50,000 for the good; she
has that much coming from a prior incarnation’s work. She will never get that
$50,000 because it has been cancelled out by his $100,000 bad. But, still she
has her personal karma. If they were to separate, she would probably still
have $50,000 positive karma to deal with. Q: But, can the wife get positive karma? RK: Well, if
she shares in it. For instance, in a situation where there is one wage earner
in the family, let’s say it’s the man, again because it is easier. It doesn’t
always work that way, but it is easier. Whoever the person who is bringing in
the income brings into the household, is shared 50%-50% with the other
person. So she, therefore, should spend 50% and the wage earner should spend 50%
of it. They can divide it up in such a way that it takes care of all the
household things equally, and whatever is left over is theirs to spend as
they choose. Of course, they make sure that it’s combined to buy more
furniture or a car or something of that sort. Q: What is an example of the husband give
money to a ? or something. Would that someday go back to—would the wife have
any part of that? RK: Yes. The
two of them together, the pair, have shared karma between them. (04-1982) |
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